Safety Planning Through the Eyes of Children: A Workbook for Children Exposed to Family Violence

Safety Planning Through the Eyes of Children: A Workbook for Children Exposed to Family ViolenceThis workbook, Safety Planning Through the Eyes of Children, is a practical resource designed to help children who have been exposed to family violence. Created by Lindy Swimm, MAE, LCSW, it provides activities, illustrations, and simple strategies to empower children to cope with the fear and uncertainty caused by domestic violence. The resource uses the story of Jenna, a young girl affected by family violence, to guide children through understanding their feelings and creating a personal safety plan.

The workbook is written in child-friendly language and offers tools like drawing exercises, safe space visualization, and techniques for calming down during distressing situations. It emphasizes the importance of providing children with a sense of safety and agency while they navigate challenging family dynamics.

How Can Social Workers and Other Professionals Use This Resource?

  • Help Children Develop Safety Plans: Use the workbook to teach children practical steps they can take during conflicts, such as identifying safe places, contacting trusted adults, and knowing emergency contacts.
  • Encourage Emotional Expression: Guide children through activities that help them express feelings of fear, anger, or sadness in healthy ways.
  • Support Family Discussions: Use the material as a starting point to work with families on creating a supportive environment and reducing violence.
  • Educate About Coping Skills: Teach children calming techniques, such as breathing exercises and using comforting objects, to manage anxiety.

This resource is ideal for social workers, counselors, educators, and advocates working with families experiencing domestic violence. It’s a hands-on tool to empower children and promote healing and safety within affected households.

Click below to access Safety Planning Through the Eyes of Children and integrate it into your sessions with families today.

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