“When Mom and Dad Separate: Children Can Learn to Cope with Grief from Divorce” is a unique, interactive book created to help children understand and manage the emotions that come with their parents’ separation or divorce. It is designed as a personal journey for each child, allowing them to express their feelings through drawing, colouring, and simple words as they go through each page.
The book addresses the many feelings children might have about divorce, offering guidance and reassurance during what can be a difficult time for everyone. It encourages children to process these changes at their own pace, using their own creative expression to explore thoughts and feelings about their new family dynamics.
Children do not need to be skilled artists to engage with this book; a small box of crayons is all that is needed to draw lines, shapes, or add words that represent their emotions. There is no right or wrong way—children are encouraged to do it their own way.
As they work through the pages, children are prompted to share their creations and discuss their feelings with a caring adult. This interaction is designed to help children feel supported, allowing them to talk openly about their emotions. They may also choose to share their book with each of their parents, helping the family understand each other’s feelings better and fostering a supportive environment.
This book is more than just a story; it is a personal tool for emotional expression, support, and healing for children facing the complex and often overwhelming changes brought about by divorce.
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